“Things happen. Can’t waste time when so much living to do.” This is a quote from a text a friend sent me early in March. It was in reference to something not even remotely related to our current reality. It feels like forever ago, yet it is so much more relevant now than it was then and has morphed to a completely different context in my mind. I barely recognize the life we were living then. If I have learned anything over the last two years it is that no amount of planning or strategizing can prepare you for the unexpected-albeit often cruel twists life throws our way. But out…